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Gay Heroes of Ancient Greece

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Check out my latest blogpost for the Gay and Lesbian Review.  It’s about Harmodius and Aristogeiton.  Along with Achilles and Patroclus in the Iliad (whom the ancient Greeks mostly saw as a couple), Harmodius and Aristogeiton were the biggest gay heroes of ancient Greece .  Harmodius and Aristogeiton were a Greek-style male-male couple, who assassinated Hipparchus, brother of the Athenian tyrant Hippias.  This may have been a private act of revenge, and it happened more than ten years before the end of the tyranny.  But the Athenians thought of them as the founders of the democracy.  Their story shows how different cultural attitudes toward gay love can be.  The Athenians wanted a male-male couple to have founded the democracy, because they considered a certain kind of male-male love the ideal matrix for courage and loyalty to your fellow soldier!

Anyway, here is the blog post:  http://www.glreview.org/gay-lovers-were-heroes-of-athenian-democracy/

If you’re interested in this kind of gay history info, sign up for our mailing list.  Or even better, come on one of our tours!  Harmodius and Aristogeiton are a big theme in our gay history tour of Italy “Gay Italy, from Caesar to Michelangelo tour,” which will take place this year on October 9-19.  In Naples, we will see the statues illustrated in the GLR.  They are the best remaining copy of the monument to these gay heroes of ancient Greece that stood in the Athenian agora in ancient times.  Harmodius and Aristogeiton will also be a major theme in next autumn’s Greece tour, “Greece, the Homeland of Same-Sex Love.”  We will see the site in the Agora where the statues stood, plus a tiny bit of the statue base that has survived since Antiquity–and even the tomb where the couple received blood sacrifice as demigods after their death.  Finally, they even put in an appearance on our “Gay Secrets of the MFA” tour in Boston, which we did in May and hope to repeat some time this autumn.

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November 2, 2026

Andrew (Lear) and his team put together an amazing 10-night tour of northern Italy, from Milan to Verona to Venice. The food was plentiful and, wonderfully tasty. Our hotels were comfortable and in the most perfect locations for exploring. The local tour guides knew their stuff and, added to the beauty that is Italy (wink).

And, the other 14 folks that made up our group were amazingly kind and, so fun to spend time with. We were from all over the globe but, you would have thought we’d known each other forever they way we were laughing each morning at breakfast.

In 35 years together, we’ve never traveled with a tour group and, we’ve never visited Italy. While I could have used a few more benches to rest on, I wouldn’t have missed this tour and, these folks for any reason. I’m glad we trusted our travel to Andrew and Oscar Wilde Tours!–Louis Sellers (Portland)

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andrew
November 2, 2026

Lovely trip with access to several sights I would never have seen, and at least one I did not know existed. The meals included were excellent and often enough at luncheon to obviate the need for a later meal. Andrew is a treasury of information, personal stories, and is a reliable river of patience when the inevitable travel glitches occur. He is an incomparable raconteur. Nearly seamless small group travel experience. –John B

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andrew
November 2, 2026

This was a fabulous trip. Andrew Lear does a wonderful job, with a great selection of places and activities and so many insights into LGBTIQ history and culture. Accommodation was good, some amazing food and a lovely group of travelling companions. Venice was an absolute dream. –Deborah H

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November 2, 2026

I travel frequently but this was my first guided group tour. The tour was right up my alley because of its focus on gay art history and culture. It also explores places I have never been to and probably won’t on my own.

I have predictable apprehensions. One difficult participant can possibly ruin the experience for the entire group. I am naturally independent and would this scheduled excursion be a right fit for me? What if the tour is just another repackaged ordinary tour disguised to be more of an intellectual exploration? The road less travelled which the tour emphasizes may well be so because they are of little interest to begin with.

Just within the first day and all my concerns were put to rest. The group is small enough to make personal connections effortlessly and just large enough to offer a smorgasbord of life experiences to share. Andrew was patient and I am in awe at his ability to gather the troop together effortlessly although it is obvious that a lot of complicated planning went behind putting it together.

New friendships developed quickly. Everyone fell into their own groove rather smoothly helping each other navigate the adventure so no one is ever left alone or behind. The sightseeings are amazing but ultimately it was the camaraderie that is most special and memorable.

As one of few in the group who literally lives in the opposite side of the world in South East Asia, I felt naturally welcomed and relaxed. Most of all, I felt I belong and had a great time. To all out there who may be apprehensive about joining this group because of perceived differences of race, culture, geography and interests….throw all that aside.

Being gay, being human, being curious, being through different life experiences….these are the natural glue that make us more alike than different. And certainly this tour manages to harness this advantage that no others I know has.

If you are sitting on the fence wondering if you should join, just go. You will not regret being a part of this quilt that makes the tapestry of life just a little more beautiful and meaningful.–Ek Yong H

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