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LGBT tour of the Metropolitan Museum!

New York City metropolitan museum of art

Amazing: it’s only 6 months since we decided to start New York gay history tours, and it’s already happening. Last Friday evening, I gave our first gay history tour on US soil:   a preview of our LGBT tour of the Metropolitan Museum, given for a gay college alumni group.

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And it went well! We tried to limit it to 18 participants, like our regular tours, but 32 people signed up, so we had to give the tour twice, and they have posted some very nice comments on the web—one of which is now at the top of our NY page.

Professor Andrew Lear
Professor Andrew Lear

I have become more and more interested in the Metropolitan Museum tour. Of course, I am an art historian, so that makes sense—and I also particularly like giving tours of the National Portrait Gallery in London, the Louvre, and the Vatican. The Met is in some ways the most interesting, however, because its collections are so all-encompassing: more than any other museum, it allows you to trace a theme throughout human history.

That said, though, the tour also has some of the charm of a Vatican tour: like the Vatican, if the Met has a great collection of homo-erotica, this is certainly not intentional. The more I learn about its history, the more I see that until recently, the Met was as stuffy an institution as it could possibly be: it only has homoerotic pieces, because they were so important that they couldn’t be avoided, or because the donors and/or trustees didn’t notice. People talk about resisting or subverting a cultural narrative. Well, that’s exactly what we’re doing at the Met: uncovering a story that isn’t meant to be there, that has asserted itself despite every effort at repression.

Whatever the museum’s intentions, the Met has a great collection of homoerotic pieces, though. In fact, it has been difficult to cut the tour down to a feasible 2 hour walk. But I think we have. We look at about 20 pieces now, in 6 of the museum’s departments. We go from the Greek and Roman galleries, through the Oceania collection and the European sculpture collection, upstairs to European paintings, where we look at a few pieces in each of the two major subsections, Old Masters and 19th century; then finally we come back down to the modern collection. In fact, while we uncover the hidden gay story in the museum, we also get a pretty good orientation.

We start with the Met’s Greek kouros, one of the earliest nude males, and we end with a Paul Cadmus painting of a circus acrobat—a 20th century New York version of an ancient homoerotic male nude (and the only piece in the tour by an artist who is mentioned on our other gay history tours of New York). A lot of our time is spent on the male nude, but we also see portraits of some famous gay people and several Lesbian scenes. In short, it’s a full two hours! So….come try our LGBT tour of the Metropolitan Museum! Judging from people’s comments so far, I don’t think you’ll regret it.

November 2, 2026

Andrew (Lear) and his team put together an amazing 10-night tour of northern Italy, from Milan to Verona to Venice. The food was plentiful and, wonderfully tasty. Our hotels were comfortable and in the most perfect locations for exploring. The local tour guides knew their stuff and, added to the beauty that is Italy (wink).

And, the other 14 folks that made up our group were amazingly kind and, so fun to spend time with. We were from all over the globe but, you would have thought we’d known each other forever they way we were laughing each morning at breakfast.

In 35 years together, we’ve never traveled with a tour group and, we’ve never visited Italy. While I could have used a few more benches to rest on, I wouldn’t have missed this tour and, these folks for any reason. I’m glad we trusted our travel to Andrew and Oscar Wilde Tours!–Louis Sellers (Portland)

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November 2, 2026

Lovely trip with access to several sights I would never have seen, and at least one I did not know existed. The meals included were excellent and often enough at luncheon to obviate the need for a later meal. Andrew is a treasury of information, personal stories, and is a reliable river of patience when the inevitable travel glitches occur. He is an incomparable raconteur. Nearly seamless small group travel experience. –John B

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andrew
November 2, 2026

This was a fabulous trip. Andrew Lear does a wonderful job, with a great selection of places and activities and so many insights into LGBTIQ history and culture. Accommodation was good, some amazing food and a lovely group of travelling companions. Venice was an absolute dream. –Deborah H

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November 2, 2026

I travel frequently but this was my first guided group tour. The tour was right up my alley because of its focus on gay art history and culture. It also explores places I have never been to and probably won’t on my own.

I have predictable apprehensions. One difficult participant can possibly ruin the experience for the entire group. I am naturally independent and would this scheduled excursion be a right fit for me? What if the tour is just another repackaged ordinary tour disguised to be more of an intellectual exploration? The road less travelled which the tour emphasizes may well be so because they are of little interest to begin with.

Just within the first day and all my concerns were put to rest. The group is small enough to make personal connections effortlessly and just large enough to offer a smorgasbord of life experiences to share. Andrew was patient and I am in awe at his ability to gather the troop together effortlessly although it is obvious that a lot of complicated planning went behind putting it together.

New friendships developed quickly. Everyone fell into their own groove rather smoothly helping each other navigate the adventure so no one is ever left alone or behind. The sightseeings are amazing but ultimately it was the camaraderie that is most special and memorable.

As one of few in the group who literally lives in the opposite side of the world in South East Asia, I felt naturally welcomed and relaxed. Most of all, I felt I belong and had a great time. To all out there who may be apprehensive about joining this group because of perceived differences of race, culture, geography and interests….throw all that aside.

Being gay, being human, being curious, being through different life experiences….these are the natural glue that make us more alike than different. And certainly this tour manages to harness this advantage that no others I know has.

If you are sitting on the fence wondering if you should join, just go. You will not regret being a part of this quilt that makes the tapestry of life just a little more beautiful and meaningful.–Ek Yong H

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